Sunday, 10 December 2017

Pick of the Week 34

You are right, Working Links are running CRC's in name only but leaving a skeleton staff post cuts to deliver the impossible. Any problem and they ask middle managers to sort it. However there are only a handful left and they are covering 2+ office bases as well as frequently supervising riskier cases because so few PO's left. UPW is a shambles since they got rid of UPW case managers and gave all standalone UPW cases to OM's. This offender was possibly unfit to do UPW from the outset, but the whole assessment process is compromised from beginning to end. Rushed through court by NPS with often just an oral report, rushed through induction and straight onto UPW without full consideration of risks to self or public.It is an almighty fuck up and the sooner someone with with some guts steps in and ends it the better. Working Links? You have got to be joking.

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Unfortunately, the state CRCs find themselves in, understaffed, excessive workloads, piss poor working conditions, unable to offer support to clients, stressed and angry, was all so predictable by just looking at the history and working practices of the companies that were awarded TR contracts. Previous behaviour is the best indicator of future behaviour? If companies have a repeat 'record' of fraud, stripping assets and staff numbers, mismanagement and poor service delivery in every other contract they've been paid to deliver, then they're just going to do the same with the next contract they're given.


NAPO, UNITED, UNISON, whoever, need a united drive to get these corrupt greedy companies away from feeding from the treasury coffers under the guise of delivering public services. They don't deliver. They feed off the tax payer at greater cost then the publicly owned model. It shouldn't be individual fights. The same problems are rife throughout the public sector, transport, NHS, prisons etc, all face the same issues. Taking back the public sector from privateer pirates requires a united public sector approach, not individual battles.

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I must be missing something: 50% of the jobs have gone and yet the praises of the SW are still being sung. At what point do some posters come out of denial and accept that all the hyperbolic talk of a brave fight has achieved zero? With a dose of realism, you can see that the SW is simply the best-looking horse in the glue factory!

As the probation service is not struggling to recruit new staff, the likelihood is that wages will continue their real terms fall and it will remain a female dominated workforce. Probation has no industrial muscle, so it's no surprise that the employers can manage the docile workforce as they wish. The unions ask for talks – they are ignored. They beg Spurr to make their case for a pay increase – he says he's spent all the money on the prison service.

On Working Links, the union leadership looks to members for directions on 'next steps', as though the union was an agony aunt. The unions well know that the only possibility of forcing the intransigent WL to rethink is through a credible threat of strike action. The pragmatic union leadership won't make the arguments for action. They push the onus onto a membership which is fractured, passive, atomised and therefore too weak to make a difference to anything.

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Having read many posts on this truly helpful blog, and having been a NAPO member for over 15 years, and having enjoyed and been proud for the most part of being associated with the Probation Service, I have come to the conclusion that as staff, being experienced, dedicated and knowledgeable on what works and equally what doesn’t, we are no longer listened to, considered or valued. We work for a faceless breed of pen pushers, pushing through a tick box, computer driven, target led framework that fails the service users, public and staff alike. And no one in charge cares.

Simply put, unless we all stand together, including every member, and use the financial and legal services of NAPO and Unison combined, to muster a movement of our own, we may as well just roll over and be done because nothing we have done so far has stemmed the tide of destruction of our once respected Probation. My question is this; what if anything can be done, on ground level and also by the unions?

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Who are the 'adversaries'? Of course senior managers read the blog. Private companies will also task someone with searching Internet and media for any publicity, positive or negative. They hate this blog because it allows staff and members of the public to post confidentially. It is the only place we can do that. I don't personally believe there is a problem with posting union related info on here and welcome open debate. I feel very much like the person who posted above. I have tried to do what I can to raise issues and flag up failings but ultimately all that is left for me is to find another job and bid farewell to being a PO. 


So that is what I am going to do. Perhaps eventually when the staffing situation reaches crisis point (is it not there already?) something will be done. The unions are only as strong as its' members. If you are a member please be a member in more than name. it is not just there to fight for you, you must also fight for each member and the union as a whole. I would like to see NAPO taking legal action through the courts. The time is right!

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There was no evidence in the run-up to TR and in the years since, that anything can be done to improve workplace conditions or achieve fairer pay. Some individuals, through promotions and other opportunities, may achieve job satisfaction and adequate remuneration, but the majority of the frontline workforce will continue to experience increasing demands, less control, while wages lag behind inflation. For the majority, therefore, it will require great imagination to feel valued.

Nothing will change for the better until the balance of workplace power shifts. And it will only shift if it's forced to. This requires solidarity amongst the workers and determined leadership by the unions. Most members of unions are inactive and show no interest in collective action. They can't even be bothered to vote in union elections – only 1 in 5 voted for the current General Secretary and even fewer for the current chairs. Despite all the travails of TR and real terms decline in wages, the wider membership remains in slumber. Maybe they sleep contentedly, are able to adjust to austerity and feel grateful to be in employment – and not in the gig economy. Their passivity is one of the wonders of TR, as the TR impact risk assessment did flag up worries about worker unrest.

There is no workplace counterforce to the writ of the bosses. Nothing is ever up for meaningful negotiation because you cannot negotiate from weakness, no matter how much you cry foul. The probation unions are weak and they know – as do the employers – that there is no mandate, no clamour from the wider workforce for confrontation. On the one hand, probation staff talk about challenging bad behaviour, but not when it's coming from their own employers. Since TR things have steadily worsened on many fronts and there is nothing to indicate that this downward trend will change any time soon. I don't really think we need worry, melodramatically, about others reading this blog. The only union strategy I see is one of trying to survive on a declining membership.

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Perhaps first come to terms that the union isn't going to do it for you and that some of your colleagues are part of the problem. If the good POs leave then they will be replaced by other inexperienced people, also part of the problem. Much as you may not agree, how about joining forces (via media) with those that use the 'service'. One way that's quite effective is to 'out' the more /greedy/corrupt CRCs in the press. And just keep outing them. In the end it will be so embarrassing to keep these CRCs in business they will have to withdraw their contracts. Get outing. The people to assist you in that endeavour are the service users.

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Worm is turning in my team. Ever since I got there, it's been a low on Union members, with a not unfamiliar "what did they ever do for us" mumble. Definitely a hint of "enough is enough" doing the rounds there, and talk of the need to join up. If any of us have the energy to fish out the form and the bank mandate: I have never seen a group of people so uniformly exhausted and stressed-out with the height of the split and sell-off.

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I recently went to a staff forum involving probation officers from different areas. The sentiment in the room wouldn't probably surprise most readers, but may come as news to those working for the MoJ or E3 or those who are so removed from practice. What was expressed broadly followed the following:

a) We WANT to do good work, but the service has lost sight of what "good means" in terms of evidenced based reduction of re-offending/desistance
b) We WANT to do assessments that are meaningful, but OASYS doesn't allow for this - if we need a 10 page PIT tool to explain what needs to go in each section, something is amiss
c) We can and DO want to record information - but not in 10 different places

So if you want HETE data, risk registers, NSI breach and recall stats, ARMS assessments and SARA, then stop making us duplicate the same information in 3 different places, as we have data fatigue. The final comments were - get rid of OASYS, get rid of Delius, get rid of data, get rid of stupid systems like mappa meganexus, SOP, Equip - bring in an assessment system that actually makes sense, bring in evidence to support and underpin the work we are doing.

So what can we do to bring about change? - collectively refuse to complete Delius risk registers, personal information/equality info and HETE data - can we not write a collective letter that we submit to managers essentially stating "we are no longer completing any of this as it means nothing and we are focusing on the core elements of our job instead"?

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I'm surprised that more comments have not been generated by the man who asked to be imprisoned in his attempt to be housed; fortunately for him, his plan worked,  for many it does not. Probation services, including the governmental wing in the form of NPS, completely ignore service user's housing needs as an integral element to preventing re-offending. Time and again I've seen service users committing offences which would not have occurred had housing been available or living in inappropriate or dubious circumstances, within a sentence plan which pontificates their avoidance of "anti social peers". 


We pay lip service to "risk management" but are more than happy to accept potentially risky situations when housing is unavailable. We seem more than happy to pay for prison, as in the case for this man, and not housing. I've seen ACO's authorise a few weeks payment in a B&B for the most risky/serious offenders, but would never consider paying an equivalent amount of money for a deposit, thus providing a long term solution. The NPS has no housing strategy. NPS probation officers have the stress piled on them by service users, managers and AP staff to "do something about this person's housing situation", and AP's are more than happy to apply their arbitrary 3 month deadline on the more tricky service users (the ones who don't pay their service charge or who rack up the odd warning letter for coming home 13 minutes late for curfew) in preference of the "easier to manage", even though the former are more in need. The situation is despicable people, please respond I need to know I'm not alone here!

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You can gauge the appetite to change things by the level of union membership and the degree of activism. Our case is undermined by whingers who moan instead of getting off their arses. Collusion, infighting, apathy, and a defeatist attitude. Loach is right. Join a union, get active, and refuse to take any crap, especially from the privateers.

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Very engaging and I get the point we need to reflect on this state of affairs. It is incredibly upsetting to read about murders in prisons and young people so afraid in custody as to be in a state of being permanently terrified. However did we ‘the people’ allow this to happen?! I would argue it was forced upon us all.

Yes in an ideal world we will all be part of a union and call the shots. Unfortunately, the only successful union these days really lies in transport. Having worked on the railways I have observed that’s because it’s completely ingrained in the culture and when it comes to transport a strike is a very powerful weapon indeed. If someone is unfairly dismissed on the railways they stand together and the whole bloody lot go on strike in support. In public services people stick their head down and think “I hope that doesn’t happen to me”. 


The union culture is not ingrained in public services in the way it once was. Too many have been let down too many times that when the time came no one had any faith that there was sufficient bottle to fight. Unfortunately in Probation, the crucial moment has passed (for now). What happened was and is a disgrace and the failures and should haves have been well documented on this blog.

I am convinced change is on its way and that ‘we the people’ want change, but I think we are all asking and trying to discover as a nation is ‘where does the power lie’? Is it our government, is it corporations, is it the EU? These are the issues that need to be worked out for real change to happen and it will take time, but we will get there. Yes we must use this time to mobilise, keep our powder dry and wait for the next opportunity to make changes to support the most vulnerable in our society.


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As a service user, I for one would welcome a strike against the CRCs. It would give us all a break.

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So Hood is another one who has moved across from public to private sector. I want to know how much he gets paid. He complains about 'noise' but gives no detail. We don't know if the probation inspectorate are noisy buggers. The unions aren't noisy and don't even get a mention. It's all surreal: an in-house magazine called Connect – which is the very thing they don't want to do. Hood tells staff to tell him what they think – he will then decide whether he's hearing noise or music.

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Being chipper and talking upbeat is the usual tool of the confidence trickster, who's real focus is really concentrated on getting as much money from the customer as they can for that dodgy car. When people realise they've been sold a croc, the chipper upbeat salesman will just move on to another pitch, and they'll be replaced by another smiling upbeat and chipper salesman.

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If they'd get their heads out of each others arseholes for just one minute they'd realise it's not "external noise" but the sound of reasoned argument. Still, nice to note the nod to this blog; seems like its giving someone a headache. Good job, JB.

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It's all good in the hood! It was only March this year that things were so bad (claimed) that MTCnovo was talking about walking out on their contract. It was only last month that bad practice and underhand methods of securing payment were being discussed in the media. All's good in the hood is terminology I'd personally associate with gang culture, crime and gangsters! Perhaps it is appropriate use of language for privateers too?

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Just a few points:
1 " collaborative work spaces": is Harrow CRC relocating to Barnet thereby creating the need for Harrow service users to travel for miles to probation appointments part of this deliberate policy?
2: "Putting the service user at the centre of what we do" - see above.
3: what is the definition of the "high calibrate staff" which MTCnovo want to look after and develop? Recent developments in the hood would suggest that these do not include part time workers, older ones, those needing assistive technology and possibly even some who would make distracting noises. Resonate with anyone?
4: "performance shared for all to see". Yes, but profits shared for all to see? No.

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Surely they mean carpe omnia – seize everything, They are profit-driven and one of their key objectives is to take money out of their business to reward investors. All their talk about being committed to improvements is predicated on mercenary motives. If they broke even they would be regarded as failures. Hood has to show a profit and to do that he will happily 'sweat the assets', stagnate pay and cut the workforce. But as he visits the offices, he wants all this forgotten. He says don't be shy about talking to him, but perhaps he confuses shyness with loathing. Why would anyone being screwed down in a CRC wish to spend time being hoodwinked. As for noise, the fool should realise it's sonic warfare and he'd better get used to it!

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Has Working Links reached 'end state' yet? The term WL's hatched for their post apocalypse vision when everything is renewed and comes to order, the chosen ones rise from the earth etc? Just wondering when the chosen ones are coming back in BGSW CRC/Devon and Cornwall? So far WL have managed to push numerous staff post 40% cuts to hand in their notice and the letters must be arriving thick and fast from what I hear. 


However, no sign of any replacements with these new malleable super-staff they were hoping for. Only a sorry job offer for a peripatetic PSO for Somerset which = some poor sod driving around in their car wrecking their engine and covering whichever office has the biggest crisis at the time. Staff are already being moved around with multiple office bases so perhaps all new staff will have to meet these criteria. Just when you thought WL's couldn't get any more for less, they manage to extract more. No doubt Ian Lawrence will have more to say on this having conducted his 'real picture' tour of the Wild West yesterday. Look forward to reading all about it and no doubt the job applications will be flooding in for that new post.

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"Transform Justice will enhance the system through promoting change – by generating research and evidence to show how the system works and how it could be improved..."

Whilst recognising the need for serious research, NOTHING CHANGES & the pontificating continues. Probation staff are drowning (CRC & NPS) yet folk are still lining up to get recognition and/or payment for describing the water. The water is deep, wet, cold & shitty.

'Less is More' was the blindly optimistic (or callously calculating?) management mantra in Trusts as the TR axe split the Probation Service asunder. It was also very popular in Sodexo CRCs when they directed staff towards the Exit Door, as if they thought it would explain their refusal to pay EVR whilst offering the greatly reduced severance package. So, with 45% staff cuts on average, and 54% in Northumbria, those CRCs should be overflowing with 'more'.

It will take more than a change of government to shake out the entrenched attitudes which have driven & embraced the changes of the last few years. It needs a new generation of strong, active compassionate politicians who are not in the thrall of money & power for personal gain; who abhor bullying; and who truly value the society and the world in which they live.

There is an element of such generosity of thinking enshrined in this blog whereby most posters use 'anonymous' or a pseudonym. Amongst the angst & anger there are many very positive observations & ideas for which there is no personal recognition or gain beyond the value of sharing in the hope of contributing to improvement. Using Sodexo & Working Links as a benchmark, I can't see those who have been handed power & £Millions of public money very willing to share, can you?

18 comments:

  1. "Probation services, including the governmental wing in the form of NPS, completely ignore service user's housing needs as an integral element to preventing re-offending." I'd actually say that probation, in all guises, ignore all service users needs in any area. This is both my personal experience AND the experience of everyone I know who was in prison with me who has been released since 2013 i.e. pre and post TR. Probation has never given a rat's arse about the needs of the service user. If they did, they'd have a VERY different approach to working with service users which would be working with them not doing things to them, when they bother to do anything at all

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    1. 09:47

      If you know something I don't ( PSO with 19yrs + experience ) in how I can secure accommodation for all my homeless offenders ( and I have a great many ) after filling out endless forms attending assessments with them and doing my best to enlist the assistance of community based support and still nothing !! - how I can ensure my offenders with mental health issues are provided with the correct support via the NHS again after doing all the above still nothing !! - the majority of us do " give a rats arse " about the people we work with but are completely restricted due to the lack of community resources ( thanks to our GOVT and especially TR ) we don't have magic wands and have never had any influence over housing , health etc - with all the chages not to mention benefits that effect the vast majority of people on out case loads we are frustrated and are constantly battling against the odds in order to provide the best support possible to reduce some ones risk of re offending and to actually affect positive lifestyle changes.
      Frontline staff are between the devil and the deep blue sea ( I work for Interswerve ) and we are constantly being told that we need to work less with people on a 1-1 basis and put everyone possible into groups in order that we can have the case loads we do and be able to stick brushes up out arses with everything else we're expected to do ,however I am from the old school of working / thinking , good old fashioned building a relationship which us now frowned upon as it takes more of my time.
      I am not dismissing what you've said but please take a good hard look at what's happening to this country right now and lay blame where it's due

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    2. Thank you for your reply 09.47...I was the person who wrote the original post and really want to hear your views and those of anyone who has been on the receiving end of probation. I certainly tried my very hardest to collaborate and do things "with" as opposed to "to" the people I was very privileged to be allocated to work with; the sentence plan should be at the heart of supervision, agreed together and led by the person charged with completing the actual goals, tailored to what they want and feel they need. But as for licence conditions, that is very much an organisational "done to you" aspect of the work, though individual probation officers can influence the scope and breadth of those conditions. Thanks for your post, we need to listen to people on probation more often, please do respond.

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  2. 09:47

    I think it's true that probation services have very little to offer service users, but I think it unfair to attribute that to those that work in the service.
    As you say yourself, post 2013 and TR the service has become very different, and that's true whichever side of the fence you sit on.
    Many comments on here by staff acknowledge the limited capacity that services can offer, and are genuinely concerned by it.
    The fault lays squarely with the government on this and I'll considered policy, and the privateers that who's profits depend on providing as little as possible.
    With regards to housing, many companies with government contracts have property portfolios, but it's more profitable to use their estate to house refugees, or emergency accommodation for other groups.
    It's simply a matter of where the maximum amount of money can be extracted, and unfortunately if you're homeless, an ex-offender or fall into a particular age group you represent slim pickings for the shareholder.
    Social conscience is an obstacle to the ballance sheet bottom line.
    If you can't get a doctors appointment for two weeks, it's not because the doctor couldn't give a rats arse about your health, it's the way the government have implemented various policies.
    It's frustrating when you can't get your needs meet. And it's right to be angry about it, particularly when the rethoric is all singing and dancing, but don't shoot the messagener, it's the government that's to blame, and the privateers that can make a fortune from social problems.

    'Getafix

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  3. to divert a bit for a good cause - a few days ago a service user wrote to the blog saying that not only was it impossible to keep appts, he also had no money to travel from Middlesbrough to a 'cancer hospital' in Newcastle. I assume he meant the Freeman, in Gosforth, where you will find a number of bright blue vehicles parked up at the entrance, decorated with cheery cartoon figures painted all over the vehicles.

    I am surprised he has not been referred to this huge charity, 'Daft as a Brush', inspired by Brian Burnie, a philanthropic millionaire who sold everything, including his mansion home, to create this wonderful charity, which runs several large cars/mini buses with the help of 300 volunteers, to transport people from home to the hospital and back home,totally free of charge.There is a driver,and a companion to add further support and safety. Many of the volunteers have been patients themselves, and at least one is a retired doctor from the hospital! Not only does the patient save a fortune, they also have a pleasant journey. I and my husband used the facility for 6 months, after being referred to it by the local hospital where my husband had been diagnosed as having prostate cancer. It only helps the Freeman, and initially he only ran the service for Tyneside patients, but our neighbour, who is a helper, has told me that since they have bought more cars,they pick up from any distance as long as it can be covered in a day. One instance was a journey to and from the Workington area in Cumbria, so he assures me that they will travel to Middlesbro'. The patient needs to be referred to 'Daft as a Brush' by the local hospital where he has been treated, or by his GP.

    Check it out on the internet - google 'DAFT AS A BRUSH'.

    If this was a genuine blog comment, I wish him well. And I hope that I won't get my knuckles wrapped for using this blog inappropriately, but it was advice for a desperate service user, who appeared not to be able to comply with the requirements of his Order. If this was a fake blog comment, then I apologise, and shame on the user who wasted my time!

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    1. Why would you assume that a service user would post a fake blog post??? That's offensive and so wrong. Most service users are struggling to survive and simply don't have the time or the energy to post fake posts to annoy people on this blog.

      Most service users are in pretty dire circumstances after leaving prison with no housing, benefit issues so no money, healthcare issues after dire H/C in prison etc etc etc. There's a fair amount probation could do: let people move out of area if there is accommodation they could get somewhere else, but few PO's will agree to this. Help to apply for grants which can only be accessed through third parties such as probation to provide some essentials. Research local and national charities like the one mentioned above so that PO's know what help is out there and can signpost service users to that help. BE HELPFUL NOT JUDGMENTAL

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    2. Rather than taking the good and helpful information contained in the post by ml, you focus on something to be negative about, and respond in a pretty offensive manner, which infact was in itself full of assumption.
      Have you ever thought that some of your own difficulties may be a consequence of your own approach to life?
      I would think (and it is an assumption), that your attitude would make most people reluctant to want to do everything they can for you.

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    3. 13.10, I' not the service user nor have any need for this service myself; but reading your post and knowing you took the time out to communicate this to him and possibly others in the area with similar needs, made me feel good. I do hope the service user finds your post and gets to the hospital soon!

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  4. 13.57 ML said 'if it was a fake blog post'.Blimey you are touchy! As I see it ML is trying to be helpful here and offer some useful advice. I cannot see why you are getting so wound up about it!

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  5. If I was in a situation where everything I did & said was questioned, was regarded with suspicion, was recorded to be used against me, was doubted; and if I was in a situation where I had little to no hope of access to stable accommodation, access to employment, access to benefits, access to someone who could assist me - I'd be angry & raging at, to or with anyone I could direct it at in the hope of being heard.

    That's what many probation staff do when they post on here, so there's no reason why someone with a different view e.g. a user of probation services, can't be similarly outraged - even if it isn't necessarily proportionate or correctly targeted.

    However overloaded, underpaid or poorly managed people think they are, they are still in jobs paying £20-40k a year; they take home maybe £1500-£2500 a month; they are most likely in stable accommodation. Yes, they've worked hard for it & work hard to stay there but... its many many many priveleges up from Universal Credit, living on the street, or in a hostel, or B&B, completing lists of the 40 jobs you didn't get every week to prove you're worthy of £85 a week.

    Pick on someone your own size.

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  6. 19.49 no one was picking on you mate..you are quite capable of doing that for yourself!

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  7. How did you get to such an uncomfortable place?
    I guess your own life choices and behaviour had nothing to do with it?
    If you learn to wipe your own arse, you don't have to rely on others to sort your mess out for you do you?

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  8. Here I am again - ml. I have just read 1357 and I am stunned. I did not 'assume' that the earlier blog comment was a fake comment. If I had assumed that, why would I have spent time writing a long supportive comment, with advice for this person??? This person did sound sincere, and I wanted to try to help, as I used to do when I was a PO several years ago. I have taken clients to hospital myself, for different reasons, on several occasions. I retired, reluctantly in 2011, but Probation as it was, is still in my heart.

    I finished my comment by saying 'if' it was fake, because there have been offensive blog comments in the past, purporting to be service users, or clients as I knew them, criticising the service, or their officer, or exaggerating a situation, and just perhaps, some of those might be from trouble making trolls, not clients, wanting to stir things up, who knows? But genuine complaints of the service are not always the PO's fault; many of them are desperately trying to help people, while drowning in managements' demands, short staffing, inappropriate targets, reduction in voluntary organisations, and staff inexperience.

    To be honest, after the criticism I generated, it became all very woolly, who was supporting my comments and who was supporting the criticism and who was just on a rant, but I do thank 2 obvious supporters - 15 35 and 1650.

    And I did mean well, as some had noted and I hope that 'Daft as a Brush' assists yet another person to live longer.

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  9. ml - If it helps, its very clear to me that your original post was generous & helpful so I wouldn't worry too much about 13:57's comments; s/he is not happy. As an experienced PO you will know that's ok, even if the comments were misdirected or based upon a misunderstanding - which is what I understood 19:49 to be saying:

    "That's what many probation staff do when they post on here, so there's no reason why someone with a different view e.g. a user of probation services, can't be similarly outraged - even if it isn't necessarily proportionate or correctly targeted."

    The echo chamber of social media has simply amplified 13:57's discontent into something more unpleasant - which is what passive-aggressive social media does best.

    For me, 20:04 & 20:31 were the most worrying comments.

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  10. ML don't take it personally. You will always get a few trouble makers on this blog but you know you have integrity. Keep posting and ignore the bullies.

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  11. 20.31 be ashamed of yourself and if you are working in probation I'm in absolute shock at your rudeness. 19.49 - I'm really sorry you are in this situation. Clearly applying for so many jobs to yet with no response, and feeling insecure about your circumstances and future, is taking a huge toll on you. You write eloquently and must have a lot to give. I do hope things work out soon.

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  12. thank you 10 01 and 1941, I wasn't worried personally, just irritated that someone could sound so bitter, making instant thoughtless assumptions.

    Keep on keeping on, those of you who can see common sense and take the time to convey that. I'm late in responding as my computer has been dodgy - again.

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